I'm a recently divorced 30 year old mother of a 10 year old boy and 7 year old daughter. I've been searching on-line all day for help. I don't want to sound like a sob story. But i need some direction. I'm hoping to find someone who can guide me where I need to be or possible help.
After 11 years in an abusive marriage I left. When I left it was with nothing but my stuff a few of my children's items and my kitchen table. I just wanted out of there. I also couldn't afford a lawyer, so when he filed I had to draw up my own papers and oblige to much of what he requested. I get half of what I should in child support. My credit is shot thanks to his poor money managing when we were married. I'm still struggling to get ahead. Somehow I manage to barely make it each month, but I'm living a month behind finacially. I'm in need of a small loan of 3000. It would allow me to pay a few things off and get a few months ahead. I can budget, otherwise I would not be able to make it the way I currently do. I do have a full time job of keeping children from my house. I can't afford to pay for daycare so this allows me to bring in income and be here for my children when they get home from school. In other words I want to clear my credit and get ahead so I need the loan, but I can't get the loan without good credit. If anyone can help lend or lead me in a direction that can help it would be so great. I just want to get ahead and not stress over being the only parent that's providing a statble home for my children. I do have collateral using my vehicle that has a clear title if needed. I have goals and I cannot obtain them without financial help. I don't want the money given to me. I would like to be able to pay it back. Even with interest.